You Only Get One

This time of year, I like to reflect on my life. I think about my good fortune and share some of it with others through our donations. I think about what I’d like to add to or subtract from my life. And though I don’t like to make resolutions, I do like to make plans.

Because we only get this one beautiful life and I don’t want to waste it. Some of us will get many years and some of us will get far too few. But no matter the number of years we receive in this, our one beautiful life, we all want to thrive.

Thriving for me probably won’t look like thriving for you–we’ll each have our own definition or vision of what thriving looks like.

I have several visions that help define thrive for me. Continue reading “You Only Get One”

Do You Make New Year’s Resolutions?

I’m kind of jealous of people who can make a New Year’s resolution and stick with it. Resolutions don’t work for me. In the past, my resolutions have typically been about starting an exercise program or losing weight. By the end of January, little progress was made and little thought was being given to whatever resolution I had set. So now I don’t bother to make resolutions.

Want to know the best resolution ever made?  Mr. Ms. Liz walked into his office one January 2nd over 30 years ago and his colleague and good friend asked if he had made any resolutions. He replied that he was going to “find himself a woman” that year. I walked in that office 24 days later.  Resolution achieved!

So I love a good “resolution” though I no longer make them myself. I do use the excuse of the New Year to set my financial goals. I guess I could call that a resolution right? As you learned last week, I finalize my full year budget on New Year’s Day. Continue reading “Do You Make New Year’s Resolutions?”

I Started My 2018 Budget . . . Have You?

It’s become a joke among my friends that I spend New Years Day doing my budget.  I usually start working on it a few weeks earlier but I get it finished up while watching the Rose Bowl Parade.

I guess it’s one of my holiday traditions–vanilla latte, parade and budgeting.  Sounds cozy doesn’t it?

I budget my net worth so the earliest I can finish up my budget is New Years Day.  Until I know my starting investment and retirement balances, I can’t budget my investment earnings.

Budgeting one month at a time works for lots of people but I prefer to budget for the full year.

Because I have some ugly months. Continue reading “I Started My 2018 Budget . . . Have You?”

I’ve Stopped Wishing My Life Away

My Dad used to tell me not to wish my life away.  I was always looking forward to what was coming, what would make my life better.

When I was 7 I couldn’t wait to be 10–double digits!
When I was 10 I couldn’t wait to be a teenager.
When I was a teenager, I couldn’t wait to drive.
When I could drive, I couldn’t wait to graduate.
When I graduated I couldn’t wait to go to college.
When I went to college I couldn’t wait to graduate.
When I graduated, I couldn’t wait to hear if I passed the CPA exam.
When I passed the CPA exam, I couldn’t wait to start my real job.
When I started my real job, I couldn’t wait for time off.
And for the last 22 years, I couldn’t wait for summer.
While I also couldn’t wait to retire. Continue reading “I’ve Stopped Wishing My Life Away”